Madonna, Vivienne Westwood, Brigitte Nielsen and many more are leading the trend of older women loving younger men. But often we come to witness the failure of these relationships. What first seemed like the one and only true love ends up in tears and despair. The most common reason why mature women are dumped by their younger male partner is, indeed, the age difference. Men of all ages find it very difficult to live with an older woman, because it is against their natural disposition. Although times have changed a lot and patterns of relationships and stereotypes vanished from most of the civilized countries, the genetics still tell us differently. In a relationship with a woman, men want to have the dominant part, they want to feel stronger and as the one who takes the lead, brings the money home and sets the rules. They find it hard to take when their female partner has more life experience and more success. The self-esteem lowers and the logical effect is that he turns away from her and seeks to find something that boosts his ego. But it might also be the woman who ends the relationship. Reasons for that are most commonly: the man is too naive and immature, he has no goals in life and only thinks of party, fun and sex, they don’t share enough mutual interests to maintain a successful relationship and have nothing to talk about, or he wants to be a father whereas she already left this subject far behind.
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